I had a friend today reveal to a bunch of people that he hasnt succesfully asked out a girl in 4 years. I was too timid to chime in with my statistics. Well, if your reading this guys, its been 3 years and it only happened once. I asked her over the internet, and the date sucked horribly! Its pretty bad when all the experience you have can be summed up in a fortune cookie sized piece of paper.
Yep.
I just...dont want to be one of those guys where people say 'Oh he asks out all the girls who date'. I am trying desperately to not be another average guy who does things the average way.
Dont you hate it when people respond with the 'good christian answer'? You know the one where they are like "Oh dont worry!! God has someone special out there for you! She will come when you least expect it! Infact, I met (soandso) at (somewhere) at (sometime) and it was just like I knew God wanted me to marry that person!!!"
Im so sick of all of that feigned sincerity!! Thats why its so freaking hard for me to connect to church people cause they are so ingenuine at times. Its like; Do you really expect me to believe thats how you really feel about things? Colours dont lie man! Hello! I know people who are so eaten up by life, but when they walk into church, they act like cloud9. A mask pops out of nowhere, super-glued to their face and they wont let anyone get close to the real them. A completely different person emerges! We are all human. We all struggle.
Hmm just clipped like 500 words from what I just wrote because I remember people read this now. Hopefully my point is still there without being all-over-the-place. Anonymity is worth gold my friends, Gold.
-Me
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